Put on a heart of...
Things Every Husband Needs to Know
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Unemployment Rises
Put on a heart of...
Joe R. Price
Paul told Timothy
to join with others who “call on the Lord out of a pure heart” (2
Tim. 2:22). A pure heart is necessary in order to follow the Lord and appeal
to him for the blessings of salvation. James wrote, “Draw near to God and
he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your
hearts, you double-minded” (Jas. 4:8). A total devotion to God is
necessary in order to purify your heart.
In Colossians
3:12-15, the inspired apostle Paul wrote that Christians are to put on a
heart that is different from the world; one that identifies them as the
people of God. Consider how you can purify your heart with these qualities:
1. Compassion.
A heart that cannot show pity toward others in their time of distress is not
the heart of Christ (Matt. 25:34-40).
2. Kindness.
The courtesy and thoughtfulness of kindness expresses a heart that is truly
interested in others (Eph. 4:32).
3. Humility.
Without a humble heart one will never approach God nor be blessed by him
(see Jas. 4:6-10).
4. Meekness.
A heart that is strong in its convictions and at the same time controlled in
its expressions of that conviction can accomplish great things. Meekness is
not weakness. It combines strength of faith and self-control to do the will
of God instead of the will of man.
5.
Longsuffering. A heart that does not act on an impulse, that is not
quick to retaliate, is like the heart of God (2 Pet. 3:9).
6. Forbearing
and forgiving. To harbor no malice against another when wronged is the
essence of forbearance. It does not overlook sin, but it seeks to overcome
it through the forgiveness of Christ (Eph. 4:31-32).
7. Love. The
purpose of God’s commandments is “love from a pure heart” (1 Tim.
1:5). Loving God with all our heart requires a heart that is completely pure
(Matt. 22:37). In like manner, we are to sincerely “love one another
fervently with a pure heart” (1 Pet. 1:22).
8. Peace of God
rules. We have been called by the gospel of Christ to be at peace with
God and to be at peace with one another (Eph. 2:14-18). A pure heart is at
peace with God, with others and with itself.
-From Building
Bible Character, pp. 39-40
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Things Every Husband
Needs to Know
Joe R. Price
Husbands must learn
how to be good husbands; it does not “just happen.” The godly husband wants
to dwell with his wife in an understanding way, and that requires effort to
understand what will help her be the wife God wants her to be – and the wife
she wants to be (1 Pet. 3:7). Here are some things every husband who wants
to strengthen his marriage needs to know.
* Your wife
needs you to be the spiritual leader of your home.
This is part of the
role God has given you; to lead in all things spiritual (Eph. 5:23). Those
who think it is not manly to put God first have a worldly view of life and
of marriage. Lead by serving the spiritual needs of your family.
* Your wife
needs you to be her partner in raising the kids and caring for the home.
Husbands are to
nurture their children, not relinquish that responsibility to the mother.
You are partners working together to raise your children in the way of the
Lord. Yes, the wife’s role is to be a helper and homemaker (Gen. 2:18; Titus
2:5). Your wife is not a “home slave” whose mission is to clean up after you
and your messes. Help her and you will reap the blessings.
* Your wife
needs you to treat her like a queen.
Your response to
her role as homemaker is to praise and honor her (1 Pet. 3:7; Prov.
31:27-29). A husband who does not praise his wife for who she is and what
she does for him and their family is shortsighted and foolish.
* Your wife
needs you to communicate with her.
Communication
strengthens any relationship (Eph. 4:31-32). Your wife needs you to listen
to her and express your interest in her (Jas. 1:19). She doesn’t always want
you to fix a problem – she may just want you to listen to her so she will
know that you are supportive of her and that you will be there for her when
she does need you to fix something.
* Your wife
needs you to be an encourager by giving her appreciation, affirmation and
admiration.
The husband who
constantly finds faults in his wife and refuses to compliment her and let
her know he is thankful that she is in his life is preparing the soil for a
crop of contention, resentment and turmoil (Prov. 21:9, 19). You can prevent
such trouble by being an encourager, not a discourager.
“He who finds a
wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord” (Prov. 18:22).
Show your wife she is good in your eyes; she needs that from you.
Adapted from
Growthtrac Marriage Minute
June 27, 2006
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BIBLE ANSWERS
Have You Counted the Cost?
Scripture Reading: Luke 14:25-30
1. Jesus was not a
crowd-pleaser, Lk. 14:25-27, 33 (Jno. 6:60-62, 66).
2. Have you counted the cost of following Jesus? Will you pay the price?
I. COUNTING THE
COST OF BEING A DISCIPLE OF CHRIST, Lk. 14:28-32.
A. The Cost:
Prefer Christ Above All, 14:26-27; Matt. 10:37 (Gen. 29:30-31).
B. The Price: Self-Denial,
Sacrifice and Obedient Service, 14:33; 9:23; Matt. 26:38-44 (Heb. 3:6, 14;
10:36-39).
II. HAVE YOU
COUNTED THE COST?
A. The Cost of
Becoming a Christian.
1. How to be saved (Mk.
16:15-16; Acts 2:38)
2. Renounce past sins,
Acts 19:18-20.
3. A new way of life,
Rom. 12:1-2; Phil. 3:7-11; 1 Jno. 2:15.
B. The Cost of being
Married Includes:
1. Permanency, Matt.
19:6 (Rom. 7:2).
2. Leaving and cleaving,
Matt. 19:4-5.
3. Forsaking all others
(fidelity), Heb. 13:4.
4. Serve, not “be
served”, Eph. 5:22-25.
C. The Cost of having
Children.
1. Financial
responsibility (1 Tim. 5:8).
2. Time (Eph. 5:16).
3. Training, Eph. 6:4
(Titus 2:4).
4. Selfish people should
not have children!
D. Cost of Standing for
Truth, 1 Co 16:13.
1. Loss of friends /
brethren, 2 Tim. 4:16.
2. Loss of reputation, 3
Jno. 9-12.
3. Cost Jesus his life!
Cost apostles (1 Cor. 4:9-13). Does it cost us anything? (2 Tim. 3:12)
E. The Cost of being
Faithful, Rev. 2:10.
1. Be faithful even to
the point of death.
2. Conquer fear of men,
Matt. 10:28; He 13:6
3. Be watchful (1 Pe
5:8-9; He. 5:12; 6:9-12)
Conclusion
1. A far higher
price will be paid for not being a faithful Christian, Matt. 25:30; 2 Ths.
1:8-9.
2. Mk. 10:28-31: Blessed now and eternally.
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BIBLE ANSWERS
Matthew 2: Recognizing the King
Scripture Reading: Luke 2:1-7
1. Matthew 2:
Recognition of the Messiah is the backdrop of this record of Jesus’ birth
and subsequent events.
2. Matthew uses fulfilled prophecy and historical narrative to build the
case that Jesus is the Messiah.
I. RECOGNIZING
THE KING: FULFILLED PROPHECY.
A. The Place of
His Birth, Matt. 2:1-6; Micah 5:2 (735-700 BC): Bethlehem Ephrathah (Judea,
Lk. 2:4).
B. Called out of Egypt,
Matt. 2:13-15, 19-21 (Exo. 4:22-23); Hosea 11:1.
C. Called a Nazarene,
Matt. 2:21-23; Psa. 22:6; 69:4; Isa. 53:2; Jno. 1:45-46 (Acts 24:5); Jno.
7:41-42, 52.
II. RECOGNIZING
THE KING: CONTRAST WITH HEROD.
A. Herod: Neither
Truly “King” nor “Jew.” (Herod the Great), Matt. 2:1-4, 16.
B. Contrast Jesus with
Herod the Great.
C. Wise Men Worship the
Child, 2:2, 11.
III. SUMMARY:
RECOGNIZING THE KING TODAY.
A. Those who are
Wise Still Seek Him, Psa. 2:10-12 (Matt. 11:28-30; Col. 3:17); Matt. 6:33;
7:24.
B. The Wicked Despise and
Reject Jesus as King.
Conclusion
1. Matthew has
presented how we can recognize the King (fulfillment of OT prophecies and
historical narrative).
2. It is up to us to acknowledge Him and serve Him (Jno. 8:23-24; Rom.
10:9-10).
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NOTEWORTHY NEWS
(Current events in the
light of Scripture)
Unemployment Rises
Joe R. Price
On Friday the US
government reported an increase in the unemployment rate in May to 5.5% from
5% in April. There are many economic and employment factors that go into
analyzing these figures, but the bare numbers mean 8.5 million Americans
were reportedly unemployed last month. One year ago that figure was 4.5% and
6.9 million, respectively. (USNews.com, “The Inside Job,” Liz Wolgemuth).
I wonder what the
figure would be if spiritual unemployment in the Lord’s church could be
calculated? Be assured, the Lord knows the number (2 Tim. 2:19).
The spiritual
unemployment figure among God’s people ought to be 0%. There is work for
every Christian to do, even if it giving a cup of water to refresh another
worker (Matt. 10:42). Every Christian can pray; every Christian can worship;
every Christian can be a good influence; every Christian can talk to someone
about their salvation, or ask another Christian to help them do it. Not only
can we do these things, we must do them. Why? Because…
* There is
much to do (Jno. 4:34-35). The fields are ready to be harvested. Souls
are lost and the only thing that will save them is the gospel of Jesus (Rom.
1:16-17).
* Laborers are
few (Matt. 9:37-38). Many are working but the Lord will not accept their
work because they are not doing the Father’s will (Matt. 7:21-23). We who
know the Father’s will must do it and try to save some.
* Work for the
night is coming (Jno. 9:4). Jesus did the Father’s work with urgency.
The only time we have to work is today; right now. We plan for a future that
may never come and fret over a past that we cannot change. To be productive
in our labors for Christ we must seize the moment, now, to exhort, to
encourage, to warn, to teach and to live (Heb. 3:12-13; 2 Cor. 6:2).
There is work for
us all to do. The faithful and wise servant of Christ is never unemployed
(Matt. 24:45-47).
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