Most of us, at one
time or another, have been confronted by a bully. Maybe it was the school
playground, maybe it was at the work place, or maybe it was even in the
church. Some brethren are spiritual bullies, prodding and baiting fellow
Christians to join them in their foolishness – or suffer the consequences.
Our Master was
familiar with spiritual bullies. Jesus was often challenged by the scribes
and the Pharisees who “began to assail Him vehemently, and to
cross-examine Him about many things, lying in wait for Him, and seeking to
catch Him in something He might say, that they might accuse Him” (Lk.
11:53-54). The truth he spoke was lost on them because they did not listen
to learn; they listened in order to quarrel and accuse (Jno. 7:15-17; 8:43).
Those spiritual leaders were neither spiritual nor leaders in what was good.
They were bullies leading a band of religious thugs, twisting what Jesus
said into what they wanted to make him say so they could destroy him. They
found false witnesses to come forward and say, “This fellow said, ‘I am
able to destroy the temple of God and to build it in three days” (Matt.
26:61). That was enough for the bullies; they wouldn’t be bothered with
accuracy, context and fairness (but then, bullies never are).
Yes, there are
bullies in the church. With intimidation, misrepresentation and political
maneuvering, these agents of evil hinder the advance of the gospel and harm
unsuspecting souls. By “smooth words and flattering speech” they “deceive
the hearts of the simple” (Rom. 16:18). Paul had seen spiritual bullies,
cautioning, “Beware of dogs, beware of evil workers, beware of the
mutilation!” (Phil. 3:2; Gal. 5:12-15) Are we perceptive enough to
discern their existence today? (Phil. 1:9-11)
When brethren
disagree over truth we must all “endeavor to keep the unity of the Spirit
in the bond of peace” (Eph. 4:3). Yes, we must contend for the faith
(Jude 3). When we abandon the honorable treatment of each other in the
process, we become spiritual bullies.
A balance must
be struck when dealing with bullies. That balance is noted in Proverbs
26:4-5 where we are advised both to “answer a fool according to his
folly” and not to do so. We must contend for the faith, yet not “strive
about words to no profit, to the ruin of the hearers” (Jude 3; 2 Tim.
2:14-15). We must “shun profane and idle babblings” while also “holding
fast the pattern of sound words” (2 Tim. 2:16; 1:13). What should we do
when spiritual bullies pick a fight?
1) Return
good for evil. “Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good
things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on
you, live peaceably with all men…Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome
evil with good” (Rom. 12:17-18). Otherwise, the resulting spiritual
cannibalism will be severe (read Gal. 5:14-15).
2) Turn away
wrath. “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up
anger. The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, but the mouth of fools
pours forth foolishness” (Prov. 15:1-2). Measure your words and be wise.
3) Do not
cast your pearls before swine (Matt. 7:6). A time comes when we must
refuse to engage the bully’s derision. Being ready to give answer “to
everyone who asks you” does not compel us to engage every question and
false accusation made against the truth (1 Pet. 3:15). Remember, Jesus was
silent before Herod when being vigorously questioned and vehemently accused
(Lk. 23:9-10). Sometimes it is best to be silent.
4) Do not let
malice grow in your heart. “Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor,
and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one
another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave
you” (Eph. 4:31-32).
5) Patiently
endure. “For this is commendable, if because of conscience toward God
one endures grief, suffering wrongfully. For what credit is it if, when you
are beaten for your faults, you take it patiently? But when you do good and
suffer, if you take it patiently, this is commendable before God.” (1
Pet. 2:19-20)
These masters at
spreading “evil suspicions” do not consent to “wholesome words,
even the words of Jesus Christ; “From such withdraw yourself” (1 Tim.
6:3-5). “Scoffers set a city aflame, but wise men turn away wrath. If a
wise man contends with a foolish man, whether the fool rages or laughs,
there is no peace” (Prov. 29:8-9). Modern Goliaths may scoff at these
principles of faith (1 Sam. 17:40-46). If you do not engage them on their
terms, then you have no conviction – no courage. Alas, more bullying.
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God Hates Divorce (1)
Scripture Reading: Matthew 19:3-9
Intro.
1. Judah was
marrying foreign women & putting away wives, Mal. 2:10-17 (Prov. 2:17).
2. God hated this treachery against their wives & brought them under divine
judgment.
3. This lesson is about the sin of sundering what God has joined together
(Matt. 19:6), the honor of marriage & how it is dishonored.
4. To honor marriage we must hate the sinful separation of mates (Heb.
13:4).
I. HONOR OF
MARRIAGE, Matt. 19:4-6 (Ge. 2:24)
A. God
Established Marriage, Prov. 5:18.
B. God Protects Marriage, Matt. 19:9-12; 1 Cor. 7:10-11; Heb. 13:4 (Rom.
7:2-3); Mk. 6:17-18.
C. God Honors & Judges Marriage, Heb. 13:4 (Jno. 12:48); Acts 26:18-20.
D. Man Dishonors (Perverts) Marriage, Matt. 19:3, 6-8 (1 Cor. 13:4-8;
Jno. 14:15; 1 Jno. 4:20-21).
1. By refusing marriage (fornication), 1 Cor. 6:13, 18; 7:2
(Heb. 13:4).
2. By bringing adultery into marriage, Jer. 5:7-9; 13:27.
3. By sundering what God joins together, Matt. 19:6 (3).
4. By treating the exception as the rule, Matt. 19:9
(5:31-32).
5. By divorcing for every cause, Matt. 19:3, 7-8; 1 Cor.
7:10-11.
6. By remarrying without God’s permission, Matt. 19:9 (Rom.
7:3); 1 Cor. 7:11.
7. By saying “all marriage is good,” 1 Cor. 7:17, 20, 24 (Mk.
6:17-18).
E. We Honor Marriage by Keeping it Pure “Until Death We Do Part,” Rom.
7:2; Ezek. 16:8 (15, 32, 38, 59); Heb. 13:4 (Eph. 5:22-25; 1 Pet. 3:7; Col.
3:18-19).
Conclusion
What God joins together is good--let not man separate it (Matt. 19:6).
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complete outline of this sermon at
BIBLE ANSWERS
God Hates Divorce (2)
Scripture Reading: Mark 10:2-12
Intro.
1. Divorce is the
device of Satan, the boon of lawyers & the bane of society. It is not from
God, Mal. 2:16; Mark 10:2-9 (Gen. 2:24).
2. God hates divorce (Mal. 2:16).
a. Due to hardened hearts of men, God (through Moses) regulated the
practice (Matt. 19:7-8; 5:31; Deut. 24:1-4).
b. Moses is contrasted with Jesus, Matt. 19:7-9.
3. Whoever separates what God has joined together (whoever destroys
marriage) faces eternal wrath of God, Heb. 13:4 (Matt. 19:6).
I. WHY GOD HATES
DIVORCE (SUNDERING WHAT HE HAS JOINED TOGETHER).
A. It
Violates the Marriage Vow, Mal. 2:14-16; Eccl. 5:4-5; Ezek. 16:8, 15, 32, 59
(Mal. 2:14; Prov. 2:17).
B. It Defiles What God Loves, Mal. 2:10-12; Gen. 2:18; Heb. 13:4.
C. It Denies the Consequences it Causes, Rom. 7:2-3.
1. To the spouse, Mal. 2:13 (Matt. 5:32; 1 Cor. 7:11).
2. To the family (cf. Rom. 7:4; 2 Cor. 11:2-3).
3. To the local church (1 Cor. 3:16-17).
4. To oneself (Matt. 19:12).
D. It Destroys Children, Ezek. 16:20-21.
Conclusion
1. Christians must honor their marriages & all scriptural marriages.
2. We must teach & live the permanency of marriage & that God hates divorce
(Mal. 2:16).
3. We cannot please God by destroying what He ordains, blesses, loves &
honors (Matt. 19:6).
4. We must help those in troubled marriages to save their marriages.
5. Always put God first & serve Christ before any thing or any person (Lk.
18:29-30; 1 Cor. 6:20; 7:23).
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NOTEWORTHY NEWS
(Current events in the
light of Scripture)
Blind Guides
Joe R. Price
Miles Hilton-Barber
is a 55-year old adventurer. He is also blind. He has climbed Mount
Kilimanjaro and completed a marathon in Siberia. He is planning to fly from
Britain to Australia to raise money for the Seeing is Believing charity to
fight preventable blindness. He will have a sighted friend seated next to
him, and hopes to complete the journey within 55 days (“Blind pilot bids to
fly from Britain to Australia,” breitbart.com, March 2, 2007).
Several lessons
from God’s word occur to us:
1) The
blessing of sight. The ability to see is such a tremendous blessing. It
should be among those we count as we give thanks to God. Yet, an even
greater blessing is the ability to see the truth of the gospel. Jesus
reminded his apostles of this: “But, blessed are your eyes for they see,
and your ears for they hear” (Matt. 13:16). We must carefully look into
the perfect law of liberty, the word of God, and obey it (Jas. 1:21-25).
What a blessing to do so!
2)
Spiritual blindness is preventable. Some blindness is from birth, and no
one is to blame (Jno. 9:1-3). But, spiritual blindness is preventable (Matt.
6:22-23). Often it is self-inflicted, the result of hardened, unbelieving
hearts (2 Cor. 3:14-16; 4:3-4). “The light of the gospel of the glory of
Christ” can shine in our hearts and bring the warmth of salvation in the
presence of God, but we must open the eyes of our hearts to the truth (2
Cor. 4:5-6). Jesus is the light of the world; are you walking in the light
of his word? (Jno. 8:12)
3) The
blind need help to see where they are going. “If the blind leads the
blind, both will fall into a ditch” (Matt. 15:14). Mr. Hilton-Barber
will have a sighted friend helping him fly to Australia. Who is helping you
see the way to heaven? Jesus is the only way to heaven (Jno. 14:6). All
others are blind guides. His word is light. Walk in the light of his truth
to be saved (Jno. 1:4-5, 14-18; 12:35-36).
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Created by Chuck Sibbing.
03/05/2007
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